but i don' deny who was. i've never denied who i was. because that's who i am >> who she is a driving force in san francisco. the head ofhe human rights commission and forr president of the high profilpolice commison. but like many in t lgbt community, she came her for a fresh start. it is pretty amazing, very suessful business person you re as a man, coached your son's football teams, i believe, oked cigars, all of the inly -- >> harley. >> all the kind of main things. as youere doing those thing were you confused though by the end of the day? >> absolutely i think most ansgender people there's something wrong, g that something not right. they don't know what it is. i didn't know what it was. something just not right. it's not like every day i woke up and thought i shouldave been a girl. consider -- think about what it woulbe if every time, you know, you, raj, getting ready for work y put on a suit and a tie, you get dressed up and you ok in the mirror and youever look good to you. it's never right. when you look you never see what you